Let me guess: you’ve seen other so-called “dating experts” give you advice saying, “this will make him chase you:”
Ignore his texts…
…post pics with other men on Facebook…
…basically don’t give him any of your time.
If that’s what you’re hoping to find here, I’m sorry to disappoint you. I don’t believe in manipulating men to get what you want. Sure, these tips might get you short-term results…but you’re looking for the long haul. You want a man to chase you and want you for years…not just a week.
I have a program called the Love Accelerator, and in it, I talk about Little Love Steps. These are tiny things you can do to move toward that loving relationship you want.
Once you’ve created a love life vision and know exactly what you want in a relationship, you’ll start meeting quality men. Now comes the fun part! You get to decide which ones are right for you by qualifying your dating options.
It’s not about making a guy like you. It’s about you finding men that are a good fit with what you’re looking for. You’re not going to give him your power or your energy until you know he aligns with your love life vision.
In this Little Love Step, I recommend narrowing down your selection to three guys. Why three? It gives you the chance to get to know three men who likely are very different and who present different aspects of what you’re looking for. Also because you have walking power. As you get to know each one, it will become clear that there’s really only one man (or maybe none from this batch. Try again!) that aligns with your love life vision.
It’s the next step you care about because this will make him chase you: pacing the progression. Rather than being completely available to talk all the time or go out several days in a row…pace it. Having space between chats or dates gives him a chance to miss and want you more. It also gives you time to consider whether he’s really what you’re looking for.
Give these Little Love Steps a try and leave a comment below letting me know how they worked for you.
P.S. If you’re interested in learning the rest of the Little Love Steps, you can get access here.